Don't Let Her Hotness Control You

Don't Let Her Hotness Control You

 

As a dating expert, I’ve learned that when it comes to relationships, things are not always black and white. Sometimes, you may find yourself attracted to someone who isn’t available, or worse, is keeping you on rotation. It’s important to know how to navigate these situations and come out on top. In this article, I’ll be sharing some of my top tips on how to handle a situation when you’re just one of many in her rotation.

 

Recognize the situation:

If she’s hot and unavailable on most days, it’s likely that she’s got you on rotation. Recognize that you are not the only one she’s seeing and accept it. It’s important to come to terms with the reality of the situation before taking any action.

 

Don’t get mad, get even:

Instead of getting upset or trying to change her mind, focus on yourself. Build a bigger team of baddies and you won’t even care about her anymore. When you have other options, you won’t feel the need to chase after her.

 

Make her feel irrelevant:

If you really want to get her attention, make her feel irrelevant. Stop chasing her and focus on yourself. When you start living your life without her, she’ll start to wonder what she’s missing out on.

 

Take control:

If you want her to see you as more than just an option, take control of the situation. Be confident in yourself and make it clear that you’re not going to wait around for her. When she sees that you’re not afraid to take charge, she’ll start to see you in a different light.

 

Be a challenge:

Don’t make it easy for her. Be a challenge and make her work for your attention. When you’re not always available, she’ll start to value your time more. Make her feel like she has to earn your attention and she’ll be more likely to want you all to herself.

 

Be patient:

Changing the dynamic of a relationship takes time, so be patient. Don’t expect her to suddenly drop everyone else and focus on you. It may take some time, but if you’re persistent and patient, you can change her feelings towards you.

 

Don’t be too available:

If you’re always available, she’ll never feel like she has to work for your attention. Make sure you have other things going on in your life and don’t always be at her beck and call. When she sees that you have a life outside of her, she’ll start to see you in a different light.

 

Know when to walk away:

Sometimes, no matter what you do, she’s just not going to see you in the way you want her to. If you’ve tried everything and she’s still keeping you on rotation, it’s time to walk away. Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t value you.

 

Conclusion:

Being in someone’s rotation can be frustrating and demoralizing, but it’s important to remember that you are in control of your own happiness. By focusing on yourself and building a life outside of her, you can make her see you in a different light. And if all else fails, know when it’s time to walk away and find someone who values you for who you are.